Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts

Monday, October 13, 2008

HELP!!

So as many of you know, I am an avid reader.  Love it, love it, love it.  However, my reading kinda goes in stages...I'll read all day every day every spare minute I can find for a few months but then I get kinda burned out and my pace slows to about one book or so a month.  But then I start getting a big ol' stack of books I want to read so I launch into another one of my reading frenzees.

Right now I'm coming out of one of my slow pace stages, meaning that I have that drive to be reading a lot again, BUT for some odd reason I don't have my usual mountain of books-to-read.  

That's where YOU come in!

I am in desperate NEED of some book recommendations.  I love reading pretty much any kind of book so don't hold back!  What books have you read lately?  And why would you recommend them?

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Reading Resolution Update

It's been about a month so I just thought I'd make a quick list of the books I've read since I made my mommy resolution to read one a week. Let's see how I'm doing...

Blink


Malcom Gladwell is always interesting.

Thousand Splendid Suns


Really liked this one. I liked that it had alot of Afghanistan's history intertwined with the story. And I liked that it was about two women.

Papillon



Pretty good. What makes this one worth reading is the fact that it's a true story.

Left to Tell


Very good. It's always hard to read about such atrocities but the author keeps it very inspiring.

Currently (hopefully to be finished this week before Dave gets back): The Spy Went Dancing



The second in a series about a real spy during WWII. Also good because it's true!

Monday, January 7, 2008

My I'm-going-to-be-a-mommy-in-a-few-months Resolutions

A few days ago Dave asked me if I was going to make any New Years Resolutions. Knowing how much Dave loves to make goals, I quickly informed him that I had no intention of making any but I'd love to hear about his.

Then yesterday at church during fast and testimony meeting I started thinking about the fact that I really am going to be a mother in a matter of only a few months. Motherhood has always been "what I wanted to do with my life" and now that it's almost upon me I'm starting to feel the crunch. Lily is going to depend on me for everything...nourishment, clean diapers, comfort, learning, emotional support, education (of all sorts especially spiritual)...I need to be the best me I can, she deserves that. With these sobering thoughts racing through my head I quickly starting making mental note of all the things I need to do to strive for the best me...and I resolve to do them.

1. Read at least one chapter in the Book of Mormon a day and record thoughts, feelings, impressions, etc in a scripture journal. I have been doing decently well with my reading over the last few months but I decided it's time to step it up a notch and move from reading the scriptures to studying and pondering the scriptures. Hopefully the journal will help with that.

2. Read at least one talk from the General Conference edition of the Ensign a day and also record thoughts in journal.

3. Contiune personal prayers morning and night.
Make prayer more thoughtful and meaningful.

4. Magnify my church calling. I have been feeling a bit isolated in my new ward (for many reasons). I was hoping that my new calling would help with that. None of the girls my age are in the Relief Society. They all work in Primary or Young Women or Nusery or somewhere else! I desperately wanted a calling that would put me with some of the people my age so I could get to know them better and make some good friends. So of course I was called to be a Visiting Teaching Supervisor for the Relief Society. I was rather distraught. I cried all the way home from church! I received this calling right before we left for Christmas and I was so upset about it that I had no intention of ever making any effort to contact the head supervisor and see what I can and should be doing.
BUT I have had my change of heart. My first step to magnifying this calling is to contact the head supervisor by next Sunday and let her know I've been called and ask what I can do to help.

5. Read one book on a gospel topic a month. This month I'm looking for a good one about the temple.

6. Read one book of my choice a week until the baby is born. I love reading so much that I've never set a reading goal before but I have a big stack of books on my night stand that I really want to finish before Lily comes.

7. Exercise in our apartment gym at least 3 times a week. The first few months of my pregnancy have been pretty rough as far as my health is concerned but I'm expecting to start feeling well enough to get in some serious exercise.

8. Make Lily a dress. I bought a crochet book a few months ago that has a really cute little dress in it. So I'm not really the most crafty of women but I want to try!

9. Sign up for classes. My doctor gave me a list of all sorts of classes I can take to learn about the different birthing options, parenting and all that.

10. Take a trip with Dave. Dave and I realized that although we have been on lots of trips since we got married, we have never done one just by ourselves. So, we're going to take one before Lily comes.

11. Play my violin at least 1 time a week. (For now...hopefully I can up the days!)

These are the goals I have off the top of my head. If I think of more I'll add them to this list.

*12. Spend quality time at the pool with Lily, Erin, and Eggroll this summer.

Friday, August 24, 2007

Where Have All the Leaders Gone?



I just finished a phenomenal book: Where Have All the Leaders Gone by Lee Iacocca. The writing style is conversational which makes it a quick read but at the same time it's very insightful. He talks about the desperate need for real leaders in this country, not only political leaders but business and community leaders as well. He gives 9 characteristics that he believes real leaders must have/be:
Curiosity
Creative
Communication
Character
Courage
Conviction
Charisma
Competent
Common Sense
He challenges us all to apply these criteria to those who currently lead us ("Maybe Congress should take year off and evaluate itself"...show us where it's working) and to those who would be our leaders as the 2008 election approaches.

It was refreshing to hear the story of a prominent business leader who hasn't run his company into the ground while becoming a multi-millionaire, one that values sacrifice, generosity, and character.

Friday, August 10, 2007

My Summer Reading

I've been able to read a bunch of books this summer...it's been a blast. Here's a quick list and brief summary of each (so far).

Rebecca: I very much enjoyed this one. It's about a young girl who married a widower and suffers the insecurities of being the second wife to a seemingly perfect woman.

Kite Runner: This one was also very good but also dealt with rather difficult situations and themes. I was interesting to learn more about the contemporary history and culture of Afghanistan. And I just found out that the movie is coming out in November.

Price of Motherhood: This was the only non-fiction book I read this summer and I found it fascinating. It's about the economics of motherhood (both the pros and cons) and the social and political stigma that surrounds mothers.

Life of Pi: This one was a little difficult for me to get through until the last 100 pages or so. I think it would have helped me significantly if I had read through the book group questions at the back of the book. It's definitely one that needs discussion.

Golden Compass: This one is a kids book, and we all know I love to read kids books, but it was a little slow for me, too. It's the first of three in a series and if my book list ever gets too low I imagine I'll probably read the rest. There is also a movie coming out in December that I'm pretty excited to see.

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: I thought this was yet another triumph for J.K. Rowling. Although it was a little slow at the beginning I thought it ended perfectly. I was very satisfied.

Eclipse: This is the third book in the Twilight series and it was my favorite of the three! I loved it...even despite the teasings of my husband!

The Spy Wore Red: I just barely finished this one and also thoroughly enjoyed it. It's a book about a real woman who was a spy for the OSS during WWII. It's pretty amazing and you have to keep reminding yourself that it all really happened!

Thursday, April 12, 2007

Twilight and New Moon

As most of my family and friends know I love reading. I am a complete nerd about it. A few summers ago, when my friends and I lived in Raintree, I made a friend who was just about as nerdy as me. We used to often go the library, get slurpees from 7-11, and have read-a-thons!

But I'm pretty sure I have out done my own nerdyness. Karen (my mother-in-law) gave me a book on Sunday night: Twilight written by a Stephanie Meyer. It's about a girl who moves to a small town in Washington and falls in love with a vampire. Apparently all the girls in her ward just love it and I love hearing about new books. I finished the 500 page book by early Tuesday morning. But not wanting to seem too over eager I waited until Tuesday afternoon to call Karen to see if she had the next book in the series. By Wednesday morning I had picked up the next 55o page book: New Moon. I started reading it around 5:30 pm, took a few breaks now and then for dinner, Jon Stewart, and such, and was done by 4:00 am. I've been completely captured by these books.

For me it's not so much the mystical story with vampires and warewolves that captivates me. It's all about Bella and Edward. I lost myself if Bella's thoughts and feelings and in her relationship with Edward. I felt like I was feeling everything she was. So many of her feelings about Edward mirrored my own about Dave: everything from the anger and frustration of trying to figure out why he does what he does to the way I sometimes have to remind myself to breath when he's around. In the second book, when Edward leaves Bella, I literally felt my heart break. It was almost as if Dave had left me! I felt her utter despair and her consuming emptiness as I read. I became whole again only when Bella was safely in Edward’s arms again.

As for now, I'm waiting in anticipation for the next book Eclipse that comes out in August!

Thursday, April 5, 2007

Blindness

So I finally finished my book...whew! It took me forever. The book is called Blindness, written by the Nobel Prize winner (for literature) Jose Saramango. It was very intense... to say the least.

The basic premise of the story is that an epidemic of blindness sweeps an entire country. The story follows a group of people who end up clinging to each other for their very survival. Society crumbles, basic hygene is abandoned, people are reduced to little more than scavengers.
I have to admit, I'm not exactly sure what it was all supposed to mean. I was surprised by the ending, it threw me off. It also seemed to undermine all that his characters had just gone through. So now I really don't know what Saramago was trying to say. Overall, it is a very interesting, albeit pessimistic commentary on human nature.

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

The Big Plunge

It finally happened! Mayra finally took the big plunge. She has been cancelling and postponing the baptism for a few weeks now but a week ago she just called up the Elders and told them she was ready and wanted to be baptized that Tuesday.

So we threw together a little baptism. She didn't want very many people there. There were about 10 people there total. Dave baptised her. It's always so nice to see him exercising that sacred priesthood he holds!

But one kind of weird thing was that her stake doesn't allow the confirmation until the investigator has had two new member discussions. So, Mayra won't be able to be confirmed until next Sunday (because of General Conference). But I'm excited for her to be a full fledged member...finally!

I am so grateful for the whole experience, both the ups AND downs. It has been such a testimony builder. I know, through very personal revelation from the Holy Ghost, that this Church is truly the only way to eternal peace and happiness. I know that Gordon B. Hinckley is a prophet of God and the leader of God's church on this earth. And I am so grateful for him. I know that Jesus Christ, through the Atonement, has all the power to heal and save us if we will humble ourselves and turn our wills over to our Lord and Savior.

Monday, March 12, 2007

Every Member a Missionary...Even ME!

A few months ago our bishop gave what at the time seemed like an odd assignment to the elders quorums. He asked them to go tracting out our ward boundaries here in Provo. I'm embarrassed to admit that I thought it was totally weird. I mean there are plenty of full time missionaries out there. And this is Utah; most people around here are already members or have at least heard quite a bit about the Church. But being the faithful priesthood holders that they are, Dave and our next door neighbor Ben spent a few hours one Saturday morning out tracting.


Surprisingly-for me anyway-Dave came home bursting at the seams. He had actually had an amazing amount of success. They found a man from Mexico that had met with the missionaries and taken the discussions in Mexico before he moved but when he came to Utah he kinda just fell between the cracks. So Dave and Ben sent the Spanish missionaries over and he has since been baptized.


But the story that I want to talk more about is about a woman that they tracted into. She is the epitome of the 'golden' contact. She was raised Catholic but had since decided that the Catholics just don't have it quite right. So she tried a brief fling with the Seventh Day Adventists. But one day she found a Book of Mormon in a hotel she was staying at (a big thanks to Marriott) and read the whole thing. She knew it was true but because of some particular circumstances in her life she wouldn't answer the door for the missionaries. But for whatever reason she answered the door for Dave and Ben. Dave was inspired and motivated by her story. He called the missionaries and after a few snags he was finally able to set up an appointment with the missionaries.


She and the missionaries came over Thursday for a first discussion. This was the first time I have ever been in a real missionary discussion. It was truly amazing. Myra is truly amazing. She is so intelligent; I am constantly amazed at how much she knows. She has a surprisingly deep knowledge of the scriptures, including the Book of Mormon and D&C. As we taught her the basic principles of the gospel she would nod her head and say "Yes, I know that from such-and-such scripture" and she would quote right from the Book of Mormon.


One particular example of this was when we were teaching her about the Plan of Salvation and explaining about the veil of forgetfulness. She nodded and said "Yes, I know about that from the Brother of Jared when he was speaking to God on the mountain." I was floored that she was able to make that kind of connection to the scriptures on such an abstract and often difficult principle.


But more important than her deep intellectual knowledge of the gospel is her deep faithful knowledge. Anything she doesn't understand she takes on faith. She knows that God talked to Joseph Smith so she knows that all the things Joseph Smith taught are true.
The missionaries came and taught her again on Saturday and she said she wanted to be baptized. So currently she is set to be baptized on March 24.


We also had the opportunity to take her to church yesterday. That was another wonderful experience. She loved the hymns. She loved their beautiful messages. We took her to a Gospel Principles class where we talked about how we are all brothers and sisters with a loving Father in Heaven. She was so happy to learn that she will have the opportunity to have babies in the next life! In Relief Society we talked about prayer and Myra participated and commented along with the best of them. You can feel her love for Christ in the very words she speaks.


Tonight we had Myra, the missionaries, and Ben, Emily, and their adorable baby Grace (Ben is our neighbor who was with Dave and found Myra) over for dinner. It was very fun. Dave and I both cooked (yes I cooked)! Then the missionaries played a video about temples. Myra is such a sponge. Even after everyone else left she stayed and we talked for another hour and a half about questions she had. There really is no other feeling like teaching the gospel to one so willing and desirous to learn!


The best part of all of this happened as we were driving home from church yesterday. Myra told us that she had been struggling so much for so long but now she felt happiness and joy. That's what this is all about. That's why we are here. That's the very purpose of the gospel. "Men are that they might have joy!" (2 Ne. 2:25)

Monday, February 19, 2007

Books, Books, Books!

So the idea of keeping lists and reviews of the movies we watch gave me the idea of keeping track of all the books that I read. I'll even write little summaries and reviews on those as well! This will be good for me to help me remember more of what I read and which books are worth reading!
I'll start with the book I just finished while in Hawaii. It's called Morality for Beautiful Girls by Alexander McCall Smith. This is actually the third book in a series called the No.1 Ladies Detective Agency. The series is about a woman named Precious Ramotswe in Botswana who decides to open her own detective agency. The novels are full of passages of her simplistic sounding yet deeply moving opinions. (1)
A major theme that Mma Ramotswe deals with throughout the series is morality. She deeply believes in what she terms 'Botswanan Morality.' This includes proper greeting proticols, due repsect to your elders, and the idea that the ends justify the means...a little wickedness now is okay if it brings about a positive outcome. She judges people based on their adherence to this morality and is never wrong!
I have definitely been enjoying these books. I have the next 2 on my bedside table ready to read as soon as I finish my current book: Blindness.